Some random thoughts I have been having lately:
There is an attitude of excess. In commercials where people need 7 new pairs of sandals and can't start their day without shopping online at their favorite website, or need the most expensive this and that. It can be hard to not get caught up in all that. I want all these things for my home for my kids and husband. To be honest for myself too. I have no problem with people having nice things and what they want. It's when you get so caught up that you get lost in it or beat yourself up because of it or think you are less or live beyond your means and put your life in jeopardy. That's when we need to step back and focus on what is really important.
Sometimes knowingly or unknowingly we ask someone to hold the line and keep us accountable. It's not a easy job to have. You may not be liked and some may keep their distance. Know if someone is willing to hold that line for you they love you very much. Also know if someone walks away from you, it's not necessarily you. They may have their own judgments to face.
Everyone has done something that they are ashamed of. When you know better, you do better. Move forward.
I believe we all have the ability to choose our life. We make our own choices for what, who we have in our lives. If you want to love someone love them. If you want to do something do it. But if it hurts someone or if you try to take my choices or others away that's when I disagree.
Trying to have no expectations or even trying to lessen or limit them is exhausting. But if you don't want to be disappointed or frustrated constantly it's necessary.
Life isn't fair, but that doesn't mean that it is ugly or vindictive either. Life is a gift. It is our choice what we make of it. Do we grow from our lessons? Do we see each challenge as a opportunity to grow? Life is not easy but it sure does beat the alternative. Live! Go out and try new things. Reach for what makes you happy. Appreciate everything and everyone. It's all a gift.
If you asked me what I would like to do most; I would say travel. I find myself complaining or being envious of others who get to go here and there all the time. I think "oh why not me?" It's not me because I have 5 kids. I also stop myself and remind myself that I have traveled. I am really blessed when I stop and think about it. Five amazing kids, lots of adventures already been had. And a long life in front of me to arrange more adventures. I wouldn't give up any of them for a trip. They are my current adventure. Best one yet.
A baby crys for 4 reasons. 1. He's hungry 2. He's wet 3. He's tired 4. He's in pain. I think what may trip us up is when we think as we get older it gets more complicated. I think we get better at making excuse or hiding our feelings. It's not, so keep it simple.
